Banana Bread

Tonight, we're moored at Marina Cay. Jerry and fixed a banana bread. We did this last year, too, and I think it's becoming a tradition. It really smells good.

The weather today started out rainy and very windy. We sailed the full length of Tortola from Little Harbor (Garner Bay) on Jost Van Dyke to Marina Cay (which is directly across the passage from the airport on Beef Island).

The passage was rough, but exciting. I was at the helm for part of it, but eventually, the skipper took command. (I was relieved.) We spent some time this afternoon on Marina Cay, and are now set to eat dinner, and, I am sure, a fabulous banana bread.

This banana bread thing is a running joke, of sorts. Jerry wants certainty in his cooking adventures. Of course, I offer no such thing. Last year, I just made up a recipe. This year, we went on the Internet (Google "banana bread" basic), and found a simple recipe for which we had all the ingredients. I'm sure it will be a feast.

Sidney's

Well, I guess I've really been to the British Virgin Island. We ate at Sidney's tonight in Garner Bay (Little Harbor) on Jost Van Dyke. Caribbean lobster is a different crustacean than its Massachusetts cousin. Sidney and crew offer fresh lobster from their own pots. They boil them, split them, and serve them with butter. Accompaniments include potato salad, cole slaw, and rice and beans. It's very tasty. Don't forget to have a couple of painkillers. Beware, you mix your own. Be very careful.

I'm on a Boat....

Hi Guys and Gals,
 
I'm in the Caribbean, BVI - the Bite at Norman's Island. I'm on a small sailboat (38') with four friends. I like the designed space of sailboats, talk about efficient. I'm glad I don't live on one, though. I'm too messy. I'm learning to sail here, and I'm beginning to think it's pretty hopeless - there's too much to learn, and I'm getting too riddled with holes through my brain. But I'm learning some great knots for all of you S&M freaks.

We're about to get underway for the day. I was at the helm most of yesterday, and I expect Jerry will be at the helm today. That means that today's lessons for me will be learning about moorings and anchors. Yesterday's lesson was about brakes. I learned that sailboats don't have brakes.... I love being on the water. I'll write more tomorrow.

My Bags Are Checked

I'm sitting in one of the concourse lounges waiting to board my flight to get out of the Washington, DC winter and head to sunny Tortola. The three legs will make a long day, but well worth the bother.

I had about three unfinished errands when I left the house this morning. I guess they'll just have to wait.

Gym as Spiritual Experience

Today at the gym, I was stretching in the room where exercise classes are held. Nobody was in there except me, until a guy came in talking on his cell phone. It really irked me. I like stretching after my (so-called) workout. I like getting into my head, closing off everything else, and just being there, and this guy is talking loudly on his phone, and I'm really letting it bother me.

Should I go over and tell him to shut up? Should I ask him to leave? Should I start talking crazily loud and just a little bit threatening? Should I go over and seize his cell phone and heave it across the room with all of my gym-enhanced strength?

I did none of these things. I'm amazed and a little troubled what my mind can devise when I'm irritated. I hope it's just a defense mechanism that defuses my aggression and nothing more. I don't even know this guy, and maybe he really has to make a phone call, although I wish he'd do it somewhere else where it wasn't interrupting my concentration.

His one-sided conversation was distracting. The more I consciously tried to ignore it, the louder and clearer his words became. I'm sitting, twisting, stretching, lifting, stewing, seething. I must have been a very pretty sight.

Back Home in Wheaton

Reading the last two posts, you'd never know that I left Wheaton for a long weekend in Atlanta with Tim. We were squaredancing (of course!). We got home yesterday, and I crashed for the rest of the evening. Ron (bless his heart) made a wonderful meal (Chicken Sausage Jambalaya), and I did help chop the onions, so I wasn't completely useless.

I talked with my sister-in-law last night about my twin's situation. I'm still shocked that he's in a hospital in critical condition. It brings up some of my own ghosts. I keep thinking he can't die. In the big scheme of things, life is pretty cheap, but it's very clear to me that life is also very precious. I'm grateful in this situation for that insight, and I'm hoping and praying that my brother completely recovers.

Duck Soup

I feel removed from what's happening in the family. I've been away from DC since Friday, and during that time my brother's condition has remained critical although he is currently stable.

The last couple of days have had a surreal quality. I've been talking to family and hospital nurses. between square dance tips. The different parts of my life that I really do try to keep separate are colliding. Add to that I am also talking with the same family members about a spring family reunion, and I wonder what planet I'm on. I've wandered into a strange place, and it's going to stay this way for a while.

Cold Spell

My brother has been in the hospital for the last two days, and seems to be getting out of the woods. He came into the emergency room, and ended up in intensive care because of a nasty virus that attacked his heart. This happened to a guy who is active, healthy, and a real nice person, too! The illness was very serious, and could have ended up with a very bad outcome. Our prayers and hopes are for a speedy recovery, and that his immune system can effectively fight the infection. He's in good care, and lots of people are rooting for him.

Traditional Values in a Modern World

I've recently been reading Fundamentalism: A Very Short Introduction, Malise Ruthven, Oxford University Press, Oxford, 2004, 2007. You should read this book, whether you are a believer, a traditionalist, a humanist - this book has a message for you.

Ruthven's main thesis is that Fundamentalism is an expression of traditional religious reactive experience to a modern, multicultural world. It's a world that's full of new, unimagined choices, and it's a very different world than that described and prescribed by tradtional belief and practice.

Ruthven describes the ingredients of Fundamental psychology and behavior that encompass Islam, Judaism, and Christianity, and also Hinduism and Bhuddism. He points out the similarities between Protestant Biblical inerrancy and Roman Catholic integralism. He packs a lot of information and analysis into 136 pages.

Double Vision?

Well, not quite. I went to the optometrist today. It seems that aging occurs in every bodily organ, including the eyes. My lenses are turning yellow (normal with age). I'm getting increasingly near-sighted (normal). Of course, aging is better than the alternative, but why does everything have to wear out, now that I'm getting used to it?

Merry Adventures

Tim and I sometimes go on merry adventures, and yesterday was such an occasion. Beer and Cheese Tasting! MMMMmmmm. We checked out a beer tasting at the King Farm Wine Shop. "The Reverend," Avery Belgian Style Quadruple Ale (whatever that means), a great tasting ale, ended up going home with me. One of the beers offered, "Oak Aged Yeti," Great Divide Imperial Stout was a very dark and thick liquid, which the beerista termed "motor oil." Truer words were never spoken, a very strange brew, indeed.

We hit the Safeway next door. This is one of those upwardly mobile Safeways, not the type of store you're going to find in downtown Wheaton. I go to a store like this and almost wish I lived in King Farm, except it's such an ugly and barren place (IMHO). Every home is choc-a-bloc the next. And some of those suckers are huge! Who's going to clean house? Oh, if we could only switch Safeways.

Then off to Olney to Olney Beer and Fine Wine. I call our trips merry adventures, because they usually involve getting lost, at least once. There is no painless way to get from King Farm to Olney during Friday rush hour. Technology rescued us. I used my Blackberry® to chart a course, using it's built-in GPS. Wow! I love this gadget! We got lost in a parking lot in Olney, and sure enough, my Blackberry rescued us.

Those folks in Olney sure know how to impress retired gay men. They had some really great beer (Tim and I each bought a bottle of Jubilee Ale, celebrating the Queen's staying power (so, so Gay!) - the last bottles in the store, a great stealth maneuver on our part. The ale has a pronounced sherry taste. It's been on the shelf for six years, and will turn bad. So I have a to drink it....

The beeristas here were young, speaking with a practiced (rote-like) experience. But I guess that's how you learn, very earnest, but friendly, and with good advice.

The store also paired some excellent English cheeses with the English (or English-like[?]) beers, with some pâté to top it all off. MMMmmmmm. So I ended up bringing home beer, pâté, salami, and cheese.

I have to point out that both stores feature some knock-your-socks-off prices, so bring credit cards, rather than cash. The Olney store also features a wine-by-the-taste, -half-glass, or -glass Enomatic Machine. Whoa. This machine is cool. You purchase a debit card, then you drink. One of the wines being offered with this metallic sommelier, was $83 a glass. We didn't partake (but we thought about it).

But wait! Our adventure wasn't over yet. Olney features a Roots Market. We stopped and took a gander. The store features organic, fair trade food. The selection was very nice, and best of all, the store was uncrowded (well, best for us, but probably not too good for business). It's kind of like Whole Foods, only different. It also will take your whole pay check.

My Dad's Sermons

My father was a country preacher in a small community church in Juliaetta, Idaho. He preached there from the late Sixties through the early Nineties. After Dad's death, my brother took all of Dad's sermons with the intent of pulling them together, doing something with them.

I talked with my brother over Christmas, and he said he was sending me the sermons, could I figure out how to make them available to everyone else? I received a big box last week, and it's full of hundreds of handwritten sermons, sermons that kindle in me a new respect and love for my father and his faith.

Yesterday, I transcribed one of the sermons. I can almost hear my father preaching it, his folksy, earnest voice. Dad was not a great orator, but faith burned bright in his words, as well as his life. I am grateful to have these sermons, and I'm going to do my best to see that they are more widely available than in a box in my living room.

Reading his words makes me focus on my own spiritual life. I don't believe in God. I'm not a Christian. There are moments when I wish I had the capacity for belief, but I don't. On the other hand, I recognize the spark and life in my Dad's work. I know firsthand how he lived his faith. It's my prayer that I can follow in his footsteps and live a life full of concern, love, and respect for all who live here.

Walk Around Wheaton

Apartments at the Wheaton Metro Stop

After going to the gym today, I took a little walk around Wheaton. I think it's interesting that my hometown looks differently than any other hometown in America. Whenever I arrive in a new place, it somehow looks foreign. I may dismiss the place as looking rundown or unfriendly. I feel like an outsider. But I look at my hometown (which, indeed looks a little seedy and rundown), and I have this warm, welcoming feeling, because I'm part of its fabric.

I don't know every shop in town, but I've at sometime or another in the last 18 years, walked past every one of them. I know the cracks in Wheaton's sidewalks. I love the smell of the row of Peruvian chicken restaurants on Ennals St. I noticed a new Salvadorean restaurant today.

Town is changing, though. A row of townhouses went in on Amherst last year, and this year, dozens of apartments are being built over the Metro stop. Already, the construction is becoming part of Wheaton's "skyline." The town is dotted with Hispanic restaurants, pawnshops, and Latin banks.

It's my hometown, though, and I love it. Wheaton is the place where I feel right at home.

Mitt Romney's Faith and
the Evangelicals

Noah Feldman wrote an interesting article about a "soft bigotry" apparent in American politics that may be causing problems for Mitt Romney. The article, "What Is It About Mormonism," appeared in the January 6 New York Times Magazine. (The link may not remain active for very long. The New York Times site requires registration, but it is a free site.)

The article describes how the Latter-day Saints or Mormons (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or LDS) have used secrecy to assure their survival and to deflect religious discrimination. Feldman's theses are 1) that evangelical Christians are wary and unaccepting of Latter-day Saint belief, 2) that the LDS Church has a culture of secrecy about its esoteric practices, and 3) that the LDS Church presents itself to the public in a way to minimize its religious differences from other Christian faiths.

Feldman's commentary is right on target. It certainly reflects my own experience in the LDS Church. I don't think that members of the LDS Church consciously misrepresent their faith, but they are culturally tuned to talk about it in ways that don't reveal the breadth of their belief or the difference of their practice. As converts, or neighbors, or critics discover the larger truths of the Latter-day Saint faith, they may feel that they've been knowingly mislead. In fact, Church members and missionaries never tell the whole truth to outsiders.

While some of this reluctance is culturally ingrained (members don't even know that they appear to be dissembling with associates who are not members of the Church), it is also fed by a deeply held belief of Church members that "You can't run before you can walk," and a belief in continuing revelation from God through Church leaders, beginning in the home, and extending to the words of their living prophet.

That is, Latter-day Saints realize (at some unconscious level) that their esoteric beliefs do appear odd to outsiders, and that they have to lay a foundation of acceptable propositions, before outsiders can understand these divine truths. Latter-day Saints also believe and expect their leaders to continue to instruct them in deeper, larger truths. Their reality is rooted in a richer revelatory experience. God continues to speak to them in a tangible way at every level of their priesthood within the Church.

Mitt Romney is having problems because of his religion. No matter how he explains his religion, it will sound odd to outsiders. If he says he believes "... Jesus Christ is the Son of God and the savior of mankind," that won't work with evangelicals, because they know that his declaration of that truth (and Mr. Romney really does believe it) is only the beginning of a number of propositions that lead to additional conclusions about the nature of Jesus and God that are far outside of mainstream Protestant theology. Evangelicals are a very fussy sort when it comes to Christian orthodoxy, and they don't much like LDS heterodoxy.

Mr. Romney cannot comment much on his religion. I personally think this is great, because I don't think that religious discourse should be present in the political arena. The Founders prohibited a religious test in our Constitution for good reason. Mr. Romney cannot comment on his personal beliefs because his religious culture prohibits it. One phrase heard among Latter-day Saints is "sacred, not secret." What that means is that their sacred, esoteric beliefs can only be shared with other believers. Their temples are closed to outsiders, not because they are "secret," but because they are "sacred." That same practice extends to Latter-day Saint beliefs.

Take a look at mormonism.org, an official web site for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The teachings on this site give the reader a vocabulary and a rationale for the LDS Church without revealing many of the fundamental differences between Latter-day Saint and Protestant belief. Those differences that the web site does portray are couched in language familiar to a Christian reader. However, the LDS church has a fundamentally different theology than Protestant or Catholic Christian theology.

For example, Latter-day Saints believe that they can become perfected and become Gods, themselves. They believe that numberless Gods and those Gods' creations co-exist with the creation in which we live. They believe in a literal blood atonement for some extremely grievous sins that they claim are not covered by Jesus's atonement. Neither Mitt Romney nor Church leaders can erase this divide of belief without fundamentally changing the nature and focus of Mormon theology.

This all puts Mr. Romney between a rock and a hard place. Although his social and cultural values certainly reflect those of many evangelical Christians, he will have a very difficult time convincing them that he's one of them. He's caught up in the institutional and cultural secrecy of his faith, and evangelical voters can't get around that fact. I believe that those voters will interpret his religious secrecy as being dishonest, and Mr. Romney's faith as being inauthentic and heretical. Ultimately, I think Mr. Romney will be unsuccessful in his attempt to capture the hearts and votes of America's evangelical Christians.

On the News

Every story is the New Hampshire primary. I'm very happy with the results. Hillary, you go grrrrlllll!

More Gadgets!

Now I have a Bluetooth® earpiece for my Blackberry®. Cool! Now I can look like all the other dorks walking around with something stuck in their ears.

Impeach the President and Vice-President

The time has come for Congress to accept its Constitutional duty and impeach President Bush and Vice-President Cheney. Each week, it seems, more comes to light about how this administration has consistently lied to the American people, and operated above and beyond the law and the Constitution. It's time for Congress to act.

This is the President who lied to his Secretary of State, to the United Nations, and to the American people, to take us into war against Iraq.

This is the President whose administration abysmally mismanaged reconstruction in Iraq and Afghanistan so that the terrorist threat to the United States is actually greater than it was when the Iraq War began.

This is the President who flouted international treaties regarding treatment of prisoners of war and torture of detainees.

This is the President who ignored detainees' rights to habeus corpus and instituted secret military tribunals without constitutional protections for the accused.

This is the President who through irresponsible tax cuts and unprecedented deficit spending to finance the Iraq War has run up a $9 trillion debt.

This is the President who has illegally tapped phones of American citizens in the United States.

This is the President who has ordered the detention of American citizens and denied them the right of adequate counsel, the right to cross-examine witnesses, the right to see evidence.

This is the President whose administration's response to hurricane Katrina was tragically inept and to this day continues to be inadequate and underfunded.

George Bush's legacy includes 4000 American troop deaths and 600,000 Iraqi deaths. George Bush's legacy includes a bungled, mismanaged relief effort for New Orleans. George Bush's legacy includes a nine trillion dollar deficit. George Bush's legacy includes lying, misleading, and spying on the American people. Is the United States safer from terrorists than it was in 2004? Congress needs to do its constitutional duty. Clean house, the sooner the better.

Automobile Blues

Ron got hit by another driver today. We believe that it's probably totaled the car. We aren't exactly sure of next steps, but we'll probably rent a car tomorrow, and buy a newer car within the next couple of weeks. This is an echo of my early retirement. This is early car buying.

Hmmm

So I had a guy over, and there was a little accident with a buttplug. When one bounces, it can leave an ugly stain on the carpet. Big time. I recommend Gonzo® Spot and Stain Carpet Cleaner. It really works.

You can order Gonzo products online, or you can buy them at some retail outlets. We got a 22 oz. bottle at Linens and Things.

Now the problem isn't the stain from the accident, it's that the carpet that was stained is now clean, and the rest of the carpet looks really dingy. I think we have a carpet cleaning in our future.

Heard on NPR

Two atoms were taking a walk. One atom says, "I just lost an electron!" The other atom says, "Are you sure?" The first atom replies, "I'm positive."

Yuck, yuck, yuck. Now that is REAL geek humor!